Hello people..i thought that i would be back with happy woppy lovey dovey story but, here i am back with some disturbing topic to share, which i have been kept for quite awhile..like 2 months ago. I have been attacked by a charming manipulator since, and yes, i've googled it online regarding this kinda personality. For few seconds, i have been contemplating with my own thought, i've decided to make this person anonymous. So, She who must not be named came to this country easily by marriage with a PR husband (she has that sort of Voldemort's character when he is young..if u know what i mean). As i thought at first, my first impression on her was nice and sweet. But, before she arrived, i have heard some news from another bird that she has been disrespectful to her sister in-law back at the village. Saying that, her sister in law has a lots of bulu on her body. Well, obviously, a normal person can get offended by that statement. Anyway, i just let it pass, maybe i've heard it wrong.
For few months since her arrival, she's not a bother to me. Maybe, because during that period, i've been travelling quite often. But still, i've heard again some news that she was talking shit about one of our friend. I know he can be pain in the ass sometimes, but that's it.
I came back from Msia in January, and since then, she's started to tick me off. First, she insulted me by 'kindly' suggesting that i should work in cleaning or fruit&veg shop, while she is not entitled for that kinda job, she is suitable for a professional job..macam bagus jer..lempang kang.
But, I said to myself, "its ok, she just being ambitious".
Second, she bloody speak in her own language and singled me out in conversation. When this happen, obviously, i just sit there and looking at the ceiling, idled. And she dared say to me,'Why Nur not talking, she's lost somewhere?'..and i simply said,"Coz u people bloody talk in H****..thats why!!..and she just laughed..dont know maybe she's stupid or just mean..
Third, she has her evil other side of being charming, by calling me, "Hey sweety..i miss u, how ru....etc".Blurghhh..i feel like vomitting when she did that. If u watched Mean Girl movie, she is that type of b*****.Smile at you, and says, how much she loves your shoes, your hairs, how sweet u were. That's all, drama..drama. This kinda personality can break friendship (between u and your good friend, coz she's blinded by the evil witch charm and sweetness. And make her turn away from you and think that you are the one, who have the problem) and also relationship.In my experience, i've been hiding away from this kinda people, but unlucky me, there always one pops out. I dont need millions of friends, i just need few friends that can be with me, in happiness and pain, no matter what..forever.
Fourth, she's been talking shit about the other person and his wife. How poor they are, how cheap the wedding is, she 's not that pretty..she's marrying him because she wanna get PR here( like you are not)...bla bla bla. This statement only appeared when that person, is not around. And when he's around, this is what she said,' Ohh..i love to talk to his wife, she's nice and pretty. That person is lucky to have her ...bla bla bla. And i was like, "Shit, she a f******* b***** and what a two faced!".I was looking at Mr A,and Mr A was looking at me. We have witnessed both of her character, and we are certain that she is also talking about us to the other person..confirmed.
Fifth, recently we went to VH coz they insisted. Before that, we have to come to their home, and we know that, they obviously wanna show their new furnitures.. and guess what, when we came in, she started with an introduction of prices and where they bought the stuffs, its like," We bought this for $400, this for $99, that for $79...and we have a plasma tv..bla bla and all that shit". I didnt even pay any attention to her, and she started to show me her new boots and says,"Its $69..from fressss-ion..and im like, Where?..she started to spell like im a f***** retarded, "F.U.S.I.O.N"..and im like, " ohhh..ok..fu-sion". Cant stop laughing in my heart..tahan..tahan..
Then, she got embarrassed and tried to pick on me by saying, "What is your shoe size?, and im like, "8"..and she said,'Wow, thats big.." until she realised that's her size as well..apala bongok sgt ni..
Sixth, yesterday, she chatted with me in Facebook and asked whether i have checked her new profile picture, like i care, i have obviously hide her from my news feed..menyemak jer. And i said, "Not Yet"..and she insist me to have a look. Ok..why not..
Then, Mr A and me planning to test her and wanna know what she would say if i told her that, i just bought a Ralph Lauren sunglass for $ 180. And guess what she said,"Oh..you are such a kiddo, getting excited for small small thing". And im like,"Im not a kid, its a normal reaction".And she goes,"Im your elder sis" and i said,"Im not much younger than u". She just one year older than me. Then, she start becoming sweet again..i'd just ignore.
Some people might think im a wet-blanket, or thinking too much..well, yea, she does give me a hard time and reasons to think too much. She's becoming the reason for me to feel bad about my job and my life, she was twittering about my work, as a labour and i do volunteering in a kids camp, as not part of my field. And she saying this, just as to insult me, just as being part of the competition. I am not intend to compete with anybody, in any way, haishh..
Her favourite quote is,"Im volunteering in my field and my boss gonna give me full-time job for $40,000 package and he's gonna buy me a Macbook". Yeah, u just simply added the last part when you get to know i already have one. Such a liar, boss mana yg belikan pekerja yg tak reti cakap english laptop. One of the charming manipulator, pandai mengampu..
Jangan tertipu ..kawan2.
Just be careful my dear friends, from this kinda person.
Brief description on Charming Manipulator:
"They energetic, charming, engaging and articulate individuals who can make things happen in a hurry. They think well in their feet, particularly if the projects cast a favourable spotlight on them".
Example: Pandai mengampu, siap tunjuk wedding pictures kat interviewer, and try to capture their heart and sympathy. So that they can reach their goal sooner. Dari segi ini, okla, bagus, nak mencapai cita2, tapi part berlagak tu yg tak tahan.
"They often will neglect to take others into accounts, believing instead that it is a 'dog-eat-dog' world. They compete from the opening bell! They rarely ask directly what they want, opting instead to maneuver or use power plays to get their needs met, so that they dont have to feel the pain of rejection or disregard"
Example: Dah banyak contoh dahh..penat den..ader lagi sebenarnya..just tak larat nak tulis lagi dah..ill update more next time..nanti jadi cerpen pendek lak nanti.
Code: Liar, Backstabber, Talam dua muka, pengampu, mean,...etc
P/S: Doakan saya supaya banyak2 bersabar...
Look at my shoes..cant believe it i used it for hiking....sigh
Sweetuu..
Steep stairs....my legs are paining...but i love the environment..its all worth it
Early in the morning..just outside the terrace of my Apollo Bay room
Bloody expensive breakfast..AUD$8.50..just for simple tasteless scramble egg and toast..im telling ya..no salt nor pepper..ive put so much salt in the packet..still no taste..hahah
